Desire photos

I dropped my phone recently and cracked the screen. Most of my data is synched online but for a split second I had a terrible feeling that my phone was irreparably broken and all unsynched stuff, like photos, were lost.

I use the phone camera a lot but only keep photos that I like. Before I drop my phone again and REALLY lose all my data, I am backing them up here. Because the internet will be here forever.

These photos have stood the test of time these past 9 months.



My dad loves airports. Last fall, Haneda Airport opened its new international terminal. I live close by and spent a day with him admiring the physics of flight and the vast assortment of omiyage at every corner.




This is me making sure I look decent before a night out with friends. I had just returned from 8 weeks overseas and this photo made me realize that I managed to lose weight, despite living off hotel buffet breakfasts for the first 7 weeks, and cheese, roast chicken and red wine in France for the last.




The boys give me good auntie training.




New Years Day with dad and Daibutsu in Kamakura.




Ai is always up for a good photo op, especially when ice skating is involved.




I ran around this lake in Colorado a few times because I could. That's Pikes Peak in the background, the most visited mountain summit in North America according to its website.




I re-visited the Garden of the Gods in Colorado Springs during my Southwest business trip in February.




The magnitude-9 earthquake hit Japan four days after I returned from my spring business trip. These are university students hanging out in front of school, wondering if they have to go back to class, and probably wishing they had paid attention during the "What to do in an earthquake" video during orientation.




After the first big quake at 2:46pm, I went back inside our building to get my jacket and phone charger--a stupid idea in retrospect. My coworker's teddy bear was knocked over.




The filing cabinets had shaken open during the earthquake. Two floors above us on the fifth floor, entire cabinets toppled over.




The second big quake came a half hour later while we were waiting in a parking lot outside of our building. After watching a parked Hummer wobble like jello, our boss told us to go home. Trains weren't running yet so my coworkers and I went to our local standing bar.




An electronics shop showed coverage of the earthquake. News of the tsunami was not airing yet.




We knew it was a big earthquake, but we didn't know just how devastating it would turn out to be.




Thousands of people walked miles home that night since most trains weren't running.




The Sunday after the earthquake was sunny and warm, a beautiful spring day. I went running and celebrated my first sub-hour 10k with spicy sesame noodles at a nice Chinese restaurant. Mango pudding for dessert was on the house, a treat from the manager, one of my sister's good friends from grade school.




After lunch and amid aftershocks, coffee and banana bread and a conversation about the importance of closure in relationships.




Due to the earthquake, my sister's wedding got rescheduled from a chapel ceremony on Sunday to business casual at my office on Tuesday morning. I still got to be one of the witnesses. Because she was the only one who had her personal hanko with her that day, so did my coworker, who incidentally is from Sendai.




When the U.S. started voluntary evacuations of citizens out of Japan, half of me wanted to flee the country and half of me wanted to stay. (Because I am half-Japanese, see.) I compromised by getting out of Tokyo for a few days with my newlywed sister. My newlywed brother-in-law joined us a day later.




En route to our uncle's house in Okayama.




This view will never, ever, ever get old.




I met little cousin Rie for the first time in Okayama.




We spread out all the guest room futons to let them air out.




OMG FUTONS ARE THE BEST THING EVER.




Colonel Mustard, in the Study, with the Cat.



The greenest green I've ever seen is in a stream in Ritsurin Koen in Takamatsu.




Having my Martha Stewart moment in my aunt and uncle's well-maintained English garden.




Back in Tokyo. Things are calmer and the full-bloom sakura make even Shibuya almost pretty.




I am about 8k into a 10k run here so I am out of breath already, but cherry blossoms like these really are breathtaking. These are the Somei Yoshino variety, Tokyo's official flower, with the palest pink blossoms against nearly black bark.




Everyone thinks you are an ugly concrete jungle, Tokyo. But I know you better.

All I need to know I learned from a once-in-a-millennium magnitute 9 earthquake

Have an emergency communication plan with your family.

Keep an extra cell phone recharger at your office desk.

Don't keep waiting to give your dad the 3-day earthquake survival kit that you bought him 6 months ago.

If your train stops running right before Friday evening rush hour, have a drink with friends at the local standing bar to think things through.

You may need to cancel your wedding. And your engagement party, rehearsal dinner, ladies' bridal tea, family reunion, and wedding dinner. You may end up with a living room full of unused daisies, daffodils and chrysanthemums that you got for a great wholesale price, and your two dogs may eat them. You may not get to wear your wedding dress and recite vows in front of family and friends. You may need to replace a honeymoon with a panicked nuclear evacuation at your uncle's house. You may need to get your sister's coworker to be a witness for the marriage papers and go to city hall on a Tuesday morning in jeans and a hay fever mask instead of to a church on Sunday afternoon in a white dress and tux. But you can still be happily married if you like and love and respect each other, keep a sense of humor, and get the down payment back from the priest.

If you're jogging, you don't feel aftershocks less than magnitude 5.

Aftershocks are a great alarm clock.

Donate to a trustworthy charity.

Don't watch CNN.

Watch NHK World.

Life goes on.

Day 21

These long business trips are fun, and for the most part I change zip codes too often to get bored or lonely. It does help to have family and friends living in many of the zip codes that I visit.

Most recently, I saw cousin Quinn and Uncle Bish in Park City, Utah. Last time I saw Quinn he was 12 years old and at least 12 inches shorter.



Uncle Bish is a super cool dude, lives to ski, and makes a mean spinach fettuccine and caprese. His house is full of good music and books, a cat named Tom Tom, and photos of Quinn.





Sometimes I get to see relatives I've never even met met before, like cousin Kai a few years ago in Germany. I had known about Kai for many years because he used to be my sister's pen pal growing up, and we are all Facebook friends. He lives outside Frankfurt with his wife, Jessika, and dalmatian, Gidget.



Kai was a great host and took me around to see many cool things: ancient castles, hillside vineyards, beer halls, a German male volleyball team, and swans swimming down the Main River.



Kai sometimes flies to Japan (I mean literally flies a plane to Japan: he is a pilot for Lufthansa), so hopefully I'll get to show him around Tokyo someday, too.

Going to the West Coast is always nice. Last fall, I was lucky to be in L.A. just when cousin Ashley was visiting cousin Nicole in Hermosa Beach. We spent a Sunday at Nicole's local sports bar, Barnacles, watching football, eating pho, and talking about boys. (Speaking of boys, dude on the right is CUTE)



Laney also lives in L.A., and having just seen her in Tokyo, it was great to continue the fun times. Which of course includes jumping photos, preferably with the Hollywood sign in the background.



Laney has been a friend of the family since she and Ai went to high school together. The three of us spent one summer all taking classes at UW, and I have many fond memories of us eating lunch after class at Saigon Deli, sunbathing and smoking at Golden Gardens, and critiquing each other's fashion. She's coming BACK to Tokyo in a few weeks to attend the wedding of the century.



With Facebook, Skype and email, it's easy to keep up with family and friends even if they live thousands of miles away. That being said, nothing beats seeing them in person.

And that being said, nothing beats going home after a long business trip.

All I need to know I learned from my business trips

It's that time of year again. Business trip time.

I have learned a lot about packing and traveling efficiently from my current job. Among other things, it's one of the reasons I am happy that I do what I do.

Take packing: how much do you need for a month-long business/leisure trip that spans 2 continents and 4 countries? Would you think it all fits in a carry-on? I didn't, but it does. (Proof: Washington-Oregon-Italy-Germany-Switzerland Fall 2009. One very durable Samsonite rolling suitcase.)

I actually prefer to take a bigger, half-full suitcase, even if it means checking my luggage. Business trips are prime opportunities to stock up on shoes and clothes that fit, Arm & Hammer toothpaste, Aveda products, maid of honor dresses, Clif bars, Rice-A-Roni Mexican Style mix, Magic 8 balls, Swarovski crystal earrings, and other treasures from Nordstrom, Trader Joe's, and Banana Republic outlet stores.

I've now been on 8 overseas business trips and have come up with a pretty solid checklist to make packing easy and insure I don't forget anything really essential:

Passport
credit cards
driver's license
cash (these 4 are really all you need, plus the clothes on your back)
camera
phone
laptop
dressy flats
sneakers
one suit
Enough business-OK shirts, socks, undergarments, etc. to last between hotel washing machines
Yoga pants and a long sweater for days off
sunglasses/eyeglasses/contacts
swimsuit (should your business trip include Hawaii)
Puffy jacket that can be stuffed inside your luggage (should your business trip include Alaska, or Utah in February)
One set of simple jewelry: earrings, a necklace, a bracelet
Conditioner. Some hotels don't have complimentary conditioner, and I find that a fro is not acceptable for business meetings.

For a long flight, I make sure to bring these on board as carry-on:
Water
Small towel
Toothbrush and toothpaste
Face lotion and face mask. I find the dryness of airplane cabins even more unbearable than the limited leg room, Northwest Airlines flight attendants, Chicken or Beef.
Ear plugs. These make a huge difference. Have you ever noticed how LOUD an airplane is in-flight? What? You can't hear me? あんだって？
Earphones and an MP3 player, preferably loaded with a new playlist chosen by a friend with musical tastes similar to yours, or a Jack Flanders adventure.
Eye mask
Sandwich and snacks
Travel pillow. I recommend the REI self-inflating one. It has silicone grippers on the back for stability, can be half-inflated for easy folding to adjust size, and ... it's self-inflating! How cool. I have never been able to use those horseshoe-shaped pillows comfortably, but this one actually lets me take a nap.
A stylish travel wallet to organize your travel documents and foreign currency.

Interestingly, I find that I almost never read on flights. I much prefer to zone out on movies, music, or, if I can, sleep. As much as I enjoy a good novel or In Style magazine, I find it makes the time go slower. I wonder why.

Keeping packing to a minimum is essential, since I have to unpack and re-pack every few days. It feels good knowing that I can survive comfortably for weeks at a time with a simple but well-chosen set of essentials. As Antoine de Saint-Exupery, one of my favorite authors, says: He who would travel happily must travel light. Especially to make room for all the shopping I will do before I head home.

Long time, no see

It has come to my attention that this blog actually has readers, even though I haven't updated in oh, a year. Thank you, especially those of you that take the time to read through the entire archive.

I thought I didn't have anything very interesting to post, but actually, a lot has happened since December 2009.

1) I moved out of beloved Shinonome Hills. I didn't quite make it to Kamakura, but I did make it to Kamata, which kind of sounds similar.
2) I visited several new countries, a principality and a Special Administrative Region: mainland China, Hong Kong, France, and Monaco.
3) My sister got a new boyfriend, and then a new fiance, and then a new house, and in just over a month I will be the maid of honor at their wedding!
4) I started snowboarding, Tibetan Heart Yoga, and running. I used to think that if a sport didn't involve hitting something, I would not enjoy it. You never know. I have also continued to surf, though not as much as I'd like to.
5) I turned 30, lost 6 kilos, and am in better shape than I've ever been, physically and mentally.
6) I continue to enjoy my job, Tokyo, my family, my friends, my coworkers. That sounds pretty good to me.

Thanks, 2010. 2011, yoroshiku onegaishimasu. Gambarimasho.